A Helping Hand

Finally! Some Video...

2011-12-15T04:06:00.000-08:00

The video for our production is finally getting published. Here is the olio "Jingle Bells" written and directed by Tina Kendall, one of our moms.

Directing is Hard Work!

2011-12-03T07:11:00.000-08:00

For the last month I have been immersed in youth theater. I created a group of thespians, The Liberty Players, from our home educated co op and we have been working on our latest production, Last Stop Till Christmas. In one month, rehearsing once a week, these kids have made me so proud! They had their first performance last night and were simply amazing!

Our group consists of grades K-12. We opened with an Olio, a short 5-10 min performance, before our feature. The youngest among us, popped in and out of our family Christmas scene with Christmas jokes and merriment. The older kids sang Jingle Bells in the background. It was Laugh-in inspired. Funny, heart warming and awesome!

Then came the feature. A comedy about narcisism and self sacrifice. Giving of oneself inspires you to give to others. Their timing was on and the show was a hit! I can't tell you how much these kids truly inspire me. They drive me crazy too. They stuck with me, through venue changes, scene changes, horrible blocking and re-blocking..and re-blocking..and some more re-blocking and they pulled it all off on show night!

Video is in the works and will be uploaded here within the next few days! I can't wait to share it with you. Here's a pic of the cast:

The Church and New Media - A Review

2011-11-21T11:21:00.000-08:00

When I first began this blog a few years ago, it was my hope that the posts that I would write would inspire others to get out there and lend a helping hand. Hence, the name of my blog. I began by posting about opportunities to volunteer and charities to volunteer for. My blog has since evolved into something of a family chronicle with, what I hope to be, an authentic Catholic tone. In The Church and New Media, Brian Vogt has brought together 11 of the most forward thinking and acting Catholic internet users to show us that we can use this "new media" not just to rant about the current political situation or show off family photos. We can use this "new media" to spread the Gospel in a highly effective way. We can reach thousands..even millions of people with just one blog post.

Your post, tweet or status update can travel around the world in seconds. Your words can literally bring the living water of Christ to people you will never see or meet. What's even better is that today, you might get to meet them! Blogger conventions and facebook has enabled us to connect with other Catholics in unprecedented ways.

Jesus told his disciples to cast their nets wide..that he would make them fishers of me. We too, are his disciples and we too must heed that call.

If you blog, facebook or tweet. If you Youtube or Vimeo. It is your choice to use them to glorify yourself or to glorify God. This book can help you discover new ways to use them to glorify God! To fill your nets for Christ and to increase your faith and the faith of others. Get it. Read it. Pass it to your priest. Tell everyone you know about it..tweet it. Facebook it. Youtube it. Blog it.

This review was written as part of the Catholic book reviewer program from The Catholic Company. Visit The Catholic Company to find more information on The Church and New Media. They are also a great source for a Catechism of the Catholic Church or a Catholic Bible.

Military Council of Catholic Women

2011-11-07T05:12:00.000-08:00

Check them out here..MCCW Worldwide and if you live in the Southeast follow us on Twitter and Facebook, MCCW Fort Gordon, Ga.

Priests, Saints and A Scorpion.

2011-11-01T10:43:00.000-07:00

Yes. I have seen all three things this week! Well, maybe not the Saint. I did watch a television show about Mother Teresa. And of course, I talked to my good friend Sarah. She will be a saint, I'm sure!

This last Sunday, our new priest,Father Joe, was installed as our pastor. I've never seen a ceremony like this and it was very nice. He promised to take care of us and we promised to support him. This was important because we need to be reminded that he is our Priest. Our Pastor. We need to support him so that he can take care of us. Two way street. He's not only a good priest, he's super funny and we are very blessed to have him as our pastor.

So I talked about the saints already..Mother Teresa, Sarah..we are all called to be one! Today is the Feast of All Saints. It's a Holy Day of Obligation. Which means get to Mass today. Make the time. It's important. We celebrate our Church today! Sometimes, at Mass, I can almost see the Saints in Heaven celebrating with us. A good friend and teacher said, there is a thin veil between us and Heaven. It's hard to see through for us. Sometimes it clears..and we can see. The Sanctus is what brings this home for me.

Now for the part you've been waiting for! Scorpions? Yep. Scorpion, to be exact. Just one. Small, but frightening still. In my school room. I though the kids were joking. I was just at the computer entering in grades..I was just sitting there. My BARE FOOT was just where that dern creature is crawling right now!!! We got a jar, the kids had a good look, then promptly left him on the porch...in the jar. He didn't make the overnight temps. I'm not sad. I don't EVER want to see one of those again! Scary.

Off to teach some drama..20 kids..a Christmas production! Busy Busy!
St. Clare, Ora Pro Nobis!

Three Things

2011-10-27T04:08:00.000-07:00

I was going to sit down and write a beautiful blog post about flowers and blue skies..no not really, but I actually had a few minutes of privacy and silence. No sooner did I click on "New Post", El Bambino started crying. I swear that boy has some kind of telekinetic thing going on. He knows. I mean it. He KNOWS! So, he's up there crying now..getting madder and madder. I suppose my time is up. Oh, my three things!

1. I'm in the process of reading a book to review here. On the Church and New Media. It's very good. I really like it.
2. I want to blog more about my faith. That's coming. Not sure where God will lead me on that one. Adoration is key.
3. I want to just plain blog more. Anyone out there with teens, tweens and babies have tips and tricks to find time to blog when there is no time? Help!

If you didn't know...Jesus waits for you silently in the Tabernacle. Go visit with him in Adoration. Even if you are not Catholic. He wants you there. With all your baggage, with all your kids and with all your love. One hour that will change your life. Guaranteed.

Have You Met Temple?

2011-10-14T11:37:00.000-07:00

No, not the religious one. Temple Grandin. The Scientist.
A hidden gem in the vast archives of my Netflix account. I was intrigued by the cover.

A story based on the real life of an autistic woman who becomes one of the top scientists in the humane livestock handling industry.

It begins with Temple on the verge of college and quite happy to remain in highschool. Her desire to be a scientist and also to be with animals, and a supportive high school science teacher spur her on to college. A mother who is beyond patient and full of love for her child who is "different, but not Less" makes this movie heart wrenching but not a tear jerker. Temple's straight forwardness is refreshing and quite often humurous, keeping things light.

Rated PG. One instance of the word "dammit", a scene of bloody bull testicles used to frighten Temple, a scene where masturbation is subtly implied in question. I would recommend for pre teens and older. Great story of the value and preciousness of all life.

Check it out. I'd love to hear your thoughts.

Lawnmowers, Trains and Yipping Dogs

2011-10-04T21:00:00.000-07:00

So, put the babe to rest...all is right with the world..
Tip toe downstairs, sit to grade the latest efforts of his siblings
Outside, the crazy neighbor, home early on a Monday..feels compelled
Fires up the blasted lawnmower

Babe cries. He does not appreciate lawn maintenance.

Soothe, rock. Cuss. Babe sleeps.

Lawnmower man creeps too closely to far neighbors fence
Sets off three yipping shnauzers caged outside

Babe cries. He does not care for yipping doggies.

Soothe, rock. Pray. Babe sleeps.

Freakin coal train passes blasting horn ridiculous.

Babe cries. So does mom.

Daybook - September 29, 2011

2011-09-29T04:56:00.000-07:00

Happy Feast of The Archangels! St. Michael, Ora Pro Nobis!
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FOR TODAY September 29, 2011

Outside my window...people are beginning to stir and the business of getting ready to head to work and school as begun. I can hear the rumble of my husbands motorcycle, it drowns out all other sounds.

I am thinking...about our fieldtrip today. We are visiting Redcliffe Plantation. I am excited because I love history and historical things. I am a visual learner and trips like this are always fun for me.

I am thankful for...this day! Our priest reminds us that every day is a good day because we are alive to live it. Amen brother! I mean, Father!

From the learning rooms... We had to put the brakes on Saxon Adv Math. Reverse and begin again. 12th grade is hard man! Can I get a pass dude?

In the kitchen...My daughter made Mexican Wedding cookies last night. Delicious. We need to work on her cleanup skills...I can see some powdered sugar foot prints in the kitchen. She was covered in the stuff yesterday.

I am wearing...In my work out gear. Still walking and running the 10 mile a week challenge. I have to run tonight though, the fieldtrip is pretty early, so I won't have time for a run.

I am wondering...why is sugar so der goooood?!?!?

I am reading...got rid of SK..scared me. Reading Dante now. Different kind of scary.

I am hoping...God sends us a Presidential candidate that will be good for this country.

I am looking forward to...coffee! Yum!

I am hearing...the kids playing and singing as they prepare for their days..someobe just turned on Nanny 911.

Around the house...put a ceiling fan in the kitchen. I love it! Keeps the kitchen much cooler.

A few plans for the rest of the week:get my 10 miles in. Become proficient in advanced mathematics. Yeah.

Daybook - September 14, 2011

2011-09-14T03:48:00.000-07:00

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FOR TODAY September 14, 2011

Outside my window...it is dark. It is that curious time when light has not yet touched the horizon, yet the night creatures have stopped their songs.

I am thinking...About how dern selfish I can be. It is good that God puts people in my life that help me see around myself.

I am thankful..for the gift of examination of conscience.
From the learning rooms...We are into week 3 and doing well. I am worried more than I should be about my sons upcoming SAT. I am trying hard not to put my anxiety on him.

In the kitchen...I am making Sunday Gravy today. Using the recipe from The Soprano's cook book..I've made it before and it's delish. It's an all day affair.

I am wearing...In my work out gear. I walk every weekday morning with my neighbor and this week I have started my 10 miles a week challenge. I get home from walking and run two miles on the treadmill. I love the way it feels to push my body to the limit.

I am creating...I need to do school pics this week. oh, and still organizing those photos from last daybook.

I am going...Today is Mass day. I am looking forward to it.

I am wondering...if I want to volunteer for our ladies group regional board. I've been asked and am discerning. pray for me.

I am reading...Still working on Motherless. Picked up Stephen King's Just After Sunset and I know that will drag me in. He had me at the intro.

I am hoping...El Bambino naps today. (Will this ever change?)

I am looking forward to...the sunrise and Mass.

I am hearing...the baby is crying. In fact, he's pretty mad. I suppose I should go get him.

Around the house...laundry day.

One of my favorite things...my coffee cup. My sister gave it to me years and years ago. It's from one of her first duty stations, Diego Garcia. I love it.

A few plans for the rest of the week: Adoration, youth choir practice, lector training tonight. Airport field trip tomorrow. Conference planning meeting on Friday. Kids youth choir retreat on Saturday. Pro-life rosary making on Saturday. Lots to do..lots to do. Have a great week ya'll!

Daybook - September 5, 2011

2011-09-05T05:58:00.000-07:00

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FOR TODAY September 5, 2011

Outside my window...it is light, but not bright. Overcast. We had much needed rain overnight. You can still hear the foliage begging for more though.

I am thinking...Typing on the iPad is bad for my typing skills. I have grown used to two finger typing. The iPad can be useful for many things. Typing is not one of them.

I am thankful...gosh! For everything. Good brisket. We had that for dinner last night. It was a delicious meal made better because I found that piece of brisket for only 7$! It was small, but just enough for all of us.

From the learning rooms...The kids are on day 3, or so, of week one. We are On a tight schedule this year. Each kid has their own daily sched and I am grading papers over coffee each morning. I am determined to stay on top of things this year. I have a senior this year and I have no udea what to do to get him in college, so I will be doing research on that in the next few days. This is where a guidance counselor works out nicely. Oh well. I guess that's just another job I need to learn.

In the kitchen...I have moved all appliances, but the coffeemaker, off the counters. What a difference! I have scaled back on dishes and pots and pans. Keeping only what we use daily and a few more roasting/ baking pans for when I have guests and need more cookware.
I am loving the uncluttered look.

I am wearing...Still in pj's. Got up late and missed my am walk.. Feeding the baby now, and then I will change and head out while the kids are working.

I am creating...not really creating, but since I've given up on scrapbooking in my efforts to declutter, I am working on putting all my loose pictures into photo albums. I just discovered some more loose ones in my room, so I need to work on that after lunch.

I am going...no where. Well, wherever God sends me, but I have no plans.

I am wondering...why my little guy does not sleep through the night. I feed him full, burp him, put im down around 1130 pm but he's up at 1 am and the. 3 am..like he's starving. We tried some solids, but that has constipated him so we are back on bmilk only. A friend suggested he's just high maintenance. Ugh.

I am reading...The Importance of Being Ernest, Motherless and Please Don't Drink the Holy Water. I like the first one. Motherless lacks cohesiveness and believable characters and PDDTHW is just drivel in my opinion.

I am hoping...El Bambino naps today.

I am looking forward to...my morning walk.

I am hearing...the kids laugh and giggle in the schoolroom. Do they think I can't hear them?

Around the house...dust dust dust.

I am pondering...the meaning of dust.

One of my favorite things...El Bambino.

A few plans for the rest of the week: take care of the dust and keep my sanity. How bout ya'll?

Daybook - August 2, 2011

2011-08-02T05:15:00.000-07:00

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For today..

Outside my window..the sun is up and it's not too hot this morning. Quite humid, but not oppressive. Even after running the neighborhood,it felt okay. Maybe the heat wave is breaking.

I am thinking...that editing my blog with the iPad is driving me crazy! It's a nifty little tool, however it has many drawbacks.

I am thankful for...coffee and good health. I am no coffee connossieur, Maxwell House is good enough for me. I love the little boost of energy I get from the caffiene. The boost helps me get up the ridiculous mountains in my neighborhood. You'd think we lived in the Appalachians...sheesh!

From the learning rooms...I am ordering school books today. Finally.

From the kitchen...finished my Wilton Basic Decorator's course. Took it about ten years ago so I needed to refresh. Lots of new techniques. It was much fun!

I am wearing...my workout gear. Black capri sweats and a pink tee.

I am going...to a friends to pick up my Christmas trees she borrowed for an event. Also need to head to Staples for school and meeting supplies. Business cards for the boys' lawnmowing service.

I am hoping...that my meeting with the other homeowners about our neighborhood pool, goes well. We've had some issues and they need to be resolved.

I would post a picture but this dern iPad won't let me upload one. Erghhh! I don't recommend it for blogging. Or anything where typing, uploading and/ or scrolling is necessary.

Daybook - July 26, 2011

2011-07-26T07:58:00.000-07:00

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FOR TODAY July 26, 2011

Outside my window...The sky is cloudy and looking like rain..the temp has dropped into the 90's..that's comfortable considering the last few weeks had temps over 100.

I am thinking...about meetings, deadlines, school, children..too much.

I am thankful...for my kids. For good health. For a roof over our heads and food in the fridge.

From the learning rooms...the boys are finishing Geometry and Spanish. We are almost ready to start the new year. I kinda like year round schooling.

In the kitchen...
homemade blueberry jam sits on the bar..preparing to make more, I have two ice cream buckets of blueberries. I need to get to wally world and purchase more jars.

I am wearing...Oh Thanks be to God! I am wearing pants I wore before I had El Bambino!!! Not the smallest ones, but dern near close :)

I am creating...I don't create much anymore.

I am going...To Post today. I have to have some purchase orders signed for our upcoming Church picnic.

I am wondering...If the gov't will screw with our paychecks next week. Summer in the south is not cheap.

I am reading...Motherless by Brian J. Gail, Heaven is Real by Todd Burpo and getting ready to start Of Thee I Zing by Laura Ingraham and Raymond Arroyo.

I am hoping...to hear from my sister, that she will be joining us on our visit up north!

I am looking forward to...seeing my family next month.

I am hearing...The movie Ice Age. The girls are introducing El Bambino to that crazy prehistoric squirrel.

Around the house...Well, what doesn't need to be done. I am in the process of laundry..started a list on the fridge of items we ran out of..the kids have been pretty bad about letting me know when things run out..so we started a list. They are learning a lesson..didn't tell me we had run out of dishwasher soap..so they have to wash by hand. ( I help dry and put away). It's a good lesson. Now I just can't forget the dern list when I go shopping :)

I am pondering...Just how I am going to pay for school. This summer has been hard on the finances..we still have lots to pay off and utilities are killing us. We cut T.V, so that's an extra 60 a month. The next to go is regular phone. I don't really need it, since we both have cells. However, it's bundled with internet. So I need to research and find the best deal for internet and cell. Get rid of landline.

One of my favorite things...Adoration

A few plans for the rest of the week:I need to make some more flyer's for the neighborhood meeting next week. Begin preparations for our trip north. Take the boys to our Diocesan vocations camp. Finish the laundry. :)

Here is picture for thought for the day..

"Hey baby.."

Vegetables and God

2011-07-12T09:17:00.000-07:00

I love Veggie Tales. I love Larry the Cucumber. I love silly songs with Larry, like Dance of the Cucumber, Where is my Hairbrush..I love the episode about Shadrach, Meshack and Abednego (sp?) The bunny song is great.

I just discovered El Bambino likes Veggie Tales too! During a recent mini meltdown, big sister put on VT and, like magic, full scale meltdown avoided!

Thanks Larry and Bob! I love ya!

Fabulous Photography From a Friend

2011-06-29T03:50:00.000-07:00

How's that for alliteration! I wanted to tell you about a good friend of mine from highschool. Back then he stuck out because of his skater haircut and grunge clothes. Today he stands out because of his ability to capture the beauty around him.

Glenn Brogan, Glenn Brogan Fine Art, offers a glimpse of the awe inspiring landscape of the Desert West.

I was the lucky winner of a recent raffle he held and won a 20x30 liited Edition print entitled "Light from Above"

Glenn also does family portraits, wedding photography and high school senior pictures. You can contact him at info@glennbrogan.com

Glen Brogan Photography

Disconserting

2011-06-23T05:20:00.000-07:00

I am sitting down to nurse El Bambino, iPad on my lap to go over the daily news. I see an alert on the CBS news app and click it. It's just an update about Obama's Afghanistan speech...scrolling thru the other headlines, I notice 3 with a common theme: Mothers who kill their children. Of course I click and read and am horrified and saddened and just....well, Sad.

I do not understand the mental place one must be in to hurt their children, in one case MICROWAVE a newborn, so severely.
I've been stressed out with the kids and even with El Bambino and beating, shaking or otherwise has never entered my mind.

I am saddened for the pain of the little defenseless one, but also for the mother who went to such a place. For the family members who must deal with the excruciating pain of losing two loved ones.

Last night I heard A recording of Jonas Salk, he asked the question "How do we apologize to our children for our profligate and destructive ways?" It makes me wonder if someone is bargaining with God on our behalf, as Abraham did. How bad was Soddom and Gomorrah before He took action? Are we headed for the same?

I don't mean to sound like a fear monger, but goodness gracious! It certainly seems like things are off the deep end for sure.

Oh! The Drama!

2011-06-12T04:05:00.000-07:00

I've neglected my blog lately, sorry. It's just that summer is here and our business factor has increased 5 fold.
Of course, I wouldn't have it any other way.:)

It seems as if we are overcome with drama. The two middles are involved in a production of Folk Tales For Fun, a collection of folk tales from around the world. The full four are also attending a drama boot camp that will begin production on Beauty and the Beast Jr., in the fall. El Bambino comes along for the ride and is getting used to the fast pace of life with active teens.

I started working out with Jillian Michaels 30 Day shred. That creates drama of another sort.

Well my few minutes of computer time is up. Time to feed El Bambino and get the other kiddos up for Church.
Blessings ya'll!

The Beat Goes On

2011-05-30T11:33:00.000-07:00

Busy, busy, busy! That's what we've been lately. I know it's that time of the year, the end of another school year. This year we are busy preparing for SAT's and investigating college and careers.

The girls are on track to finish by June, but the boys are looking at July. I don't mind tha they work during the summer, it keeps them up to date and saves me money. I don't have to worry about how to entertain them and keep them off the t.v and video games. My oldest is heading into his senior year and will have a very heavy workload with school, work and extra curricula activities. He's got his eye on the police academy. He had thought about serving in the military but has opted for service closer to home. I am happy about that. So we have begun the discovery process. Good thing, he can get a scholarship to cover the cost of the Academy! He will also earn 45 credits toward and associates in Criminal Justice.

The others are working hard and looking forward to next year. My youngest, El Bambino, is growing fast and finally falling in to a schedule of some sort. He's still waking up at night, I will be happy when he sleeps through. He's started taking naps during the day which means I can get some things done around the house.

I took the girls to a homesteading class on how to make Jam and butter. We made jars of strawberry jam and yesterday I made my own peach jam. Its much cheaper and much much quicker to purchase butter in the store. I think I enjoyed the class far more than the girls did. Next month we will learn about canning vegetables. I've always wanted to know how to do this!

I've started a very serious workout regimen. I walk 1.5 hill filled miles every day, add an extra 1.75 miles on Monday, Wednesday and Friday. My neighbor and I do Power 90 DVD on Mon, Wed and Fri and I do Jillian Michaels 30 Day Shred (holy cow that's a killer one!) on Tues, Thurs, Sat and Sun. I also joined Weight Watchers. I enjoy knowing that I can eat what I want. Just not always as much as I want. I'm learning, very quickly, how big portion sizes really are. No wonder I got so dern fat. That bucket of a bowl I had was definitely NOT a portion size on this planet :)

Since I had El Bambino I've lost 43 lbs. Granted, he was 10 of that. But my excuses were the other 33. I would like to lose 75 more. That would put me at 160 and quite content. I haven't weighed 160 lbs since High school. *sigh* I'm not a fan of mentioning my weight, but accountability helps. So...don't let me quit!!!

So no more nappy for El Bambino, he needs to be fed so I can hit the store before the day is done. I've got some pics to frame. I can't wait to share one in particular with you. Hopefully this week.

Have a blessed Memorial Day! Thank you to all who serve in our nations military. Thank you to those who support them.

The First Day of the Rest of My Life

2011-05-09T15:45:00.001-07:00

This was March 18th, 2011.

Life, as I had been experiencing it, changed completely. Instead of being a mom to 4 older children, I am now mom to 4 older children and one newborn. This doesn't sound like much until you begin to add up all that it means.

Older children make breakfast for themselves, newborns wake mom up for breakfast. :)
Older children wash and fold their own laundry, newborns wear diapers that sometimes leak because a sleepy mom put it on all wonky at 2 am and need to have their onesie changed and washed by sleepy mom.
Older children clean up their own rooms, newborns make no messes, but sleepy mom just tosses those cleaned onesies on the chair instead of putting them in the drawer and has to clean up babies room now.
Older children can ride their bikes and walk next to mom, newborns are pushed in a stroller or carried by mom who now realizes how out of shape she really was!
Older children say "Let's go on a field trip" and we do. A newborn says "Let's go on a fieldtrip after you feed me, put on a clean diaper, get the baby bag together, put the stroller in the car, oh yeah and feed me again please..Now I need a new diaper..don't worry we'll get there..next week"

I am not complaining, I love my lil' bambino more than I can even express and my older children love him too.

I have been a mom to older children for a while and now must relearn how to be a mom to a lil' one. It's a much different world.

My 16 yo stares at me like I'm crazy when he catches me baby talking to El Bambino. They have each taken to him in their own ways. I can see in my girls the beauty of nurturing and in my boys,the fathers they may one day be.

El Bambino has brought much to our family. Because of the gift of his life, our lives have been renewed. Thanks be to God.

Life's A Gas

2011-04-26T07:54:00.000-07:00

The Ramones had no idea how true this would be for El Bambino. He's full of it. Gas, I mean.

The boy nurses like a racehorse! Not that I know what a racehorse nurses like..do thy even nurse? i don't think so...but what I mean is, he's fast. He gulps and smacks. There's no "quietly" nursing this guy.

I've read the book, the blogs, the forums. We've latched, un-latched an re-latched again. I've used the cradle hold, the football hold, nursed sitting up and lying down. I've dropped the beans and broccoli, even the occasional chocolate. All to no avail.

Life is just a gas right now.

A Biblical Walk Through The Mass - A Review

2011-04-08T12:20:00.000-07:00

A few months ago I was sent this book to review for The Catholic Company. I've been reading and re-reading it since.

Dr. Edward Sri has brought the Mass home to me. In an easy to read format, using references from Scripture and The Church Fathers, he has opened the door to the Mass in a new and enlightening way.

With the new Roman Missal heading our way this Advent, I wanted to try to understand how the changes would affect me and my family and our worship. This book has shed new light on how we pray the Mass. It is a prayer, the Greatest prayer, and for far too long I was just reciting the prayers without much thought. The words were coming out but my heart was not in it and, here's the thing, I didn't even know it!

Dr. Sri's book has helped me find the meaning in the prayer. I've discovered a richer, fuller participation in the Mass than I have ever had and I don't even have to leave my pew.

This book will open your eyes and your heart to the way you pray the Mass. Pick it up today at The Catholic Company.

I'm Still Standing

2011-03-31T05:14:00.000-07:00

However, I wish I was lying down! I've been away for awhile...having and caring for our new babe. Chris was born in the early hours of March 18th, after a mere 5 hours of pitocin induced labor. If I had to do it over again, I would have waited a day or two more before inducing. Pitocin is no joke. My hubby was strong as a rock and provided awesome support as I labored. I was able to labor standing up, much easier than previous labors, and leaning on hubby was such a relief. Speaking of relief, I found that when the pitocin was flowing there was very little relief between contractions. The Nurse shut it off when I was at the end, 8 cm, and finally there was noticeable relief between contractions.

To make a long story short, Chris made his arrival, all10 lbs 4 oz of him, it hurt like the dickens! We couldn't be happier! Man o Man was I happy! The doc and the nurses were great, hubby was solid and baby was healthy and huge! Thanks Be to God. and thank goodness it wasn't all that chocolate that made me so huge :)

He's absolutely my new love, I do try to share him, but it's hard. Even as tired as I am, I just can't let him go.

I apologize now for any spelling errors, I'm typing this on hubby's iPad, and the keyboard is weird.

Here are some pics of the boy who has stolen my heart.

Patience

2011-03-11T08:42:00.000-08:00

I am due on Sunday. I am ready today. I have only dilated 1.5 cm..I went on a walk today..even though the doc said walking will only make me tired..he said there's no proof that walking speeds up any dilation. But at least I felt like I was doing something.

He was right. I am tired now. The kids are great. They are making our meatless Lenten lunch..fish sticks and mac and cheese. Lent is the only time I buy mac and cheese. So it's more of a treat than a sacrifice. Maybe I need to re-think that.

just some random thoughts:

Glad to hear that Sarah over at Harbor of Aloha is doing well and safe this morning after the Tsunami warnings for Hawaii. I haven't heard directly from her, but t.v. says Hawaii was pretty much spared any major damage. Now I need to check with my sis in SoCal.

Japan.wow.Crazy. I've been through one, very minor earthquake when we were stationed in Guam. I didn't like it. Can't imagine 8.9. wow.

My 14 yo has us listening to his mp3 player during lunch..I've heard everything from The Beach Boys to The Star Wars Theme to Phil Collins..throw some TobyMac and RED in there as well. He's got varied taste that boy.

Off to eat lunch. Girls are calling me. Have a great day!

Family Talent

2011-03-05T06:24:00.000-08:00

Meet my lil' brother!

Strike Illustrated

Mr. Pinch Overheard

2011-03-01T14:00:00.000-08:00

During a recent episode of "Just Dance" phys ed.. Mr. Pinch blurted out

"My butt feels good when I shake it!"

Should I be worried?

The Way, The Truth, The Life & Wipeout

2011-02-25T05:45:00.000-08:00

Father gave a good reflection at Wednesday's daily Mass. He spoke about Jesus being The Way, The Truth and The Life. He said if we follow the Way of Christ we learn to live in Truth, to stop deceiving ourselves, and thus gain eternal life. However! Satan does his best to push us from The Way so that we never learn the Truth and hopefully do not gain eternal life.

Later that evening, at Adoration, I was thinking about Father's words. The show Wipeout came to my mind. I almost laughed out loud! I thought this is exactly what happens to me!

If you have never seen Wipeout, a quick summary: Contestants vie for a cash prize as they work their way along a treacherous obstacle course.

The last episode had the contestants running along a seemingly benign foam runway when *WHAMO!!** the end of the track flips up and sends the competitor flying into the waters below. Hilarious to watch, but it really hit home with me and this reflection. All the contestants on the show seem shocked when they are tossed off the way so easily and completely. Yet, they make the swim and climb back on the course and try again. The one who wins has been able to hold on along the way. But not without struggle!

Just like Father was saying..we are imperfect..we have all the wonderful intentions of following Christ's Way. We WANT to live in Truth and earn Eternal Life with Him in Heaven. It's the ultimate prize! Yet, so often we encounter obstacles along the way that knock us off the path and we have to work even harder to get back on track.

So, who says T.V is all bad! Maybe there are some good lessons even in the disastrous falls and shocking body shots of Wipeout!

Oh and here are some pics of the finished babies room.

Touring

2011-02-15T03:51:00.000-08:00

Took the hospital tour yesterday. It's good to know how to get where we need to be when the time comes. Hubby wanted to make sure we reviewed all the ways to get to the 3rd floor! :) It's a beautiful hospital. Catholic. Blessed MOther and baby Jesus everywhere. It is a comforting environment and the nurses on Labor and delivery seem very nice.

Just a few more weeks to go. Just being in that delivery room was strange. Had flashbacks.

I have such a wonderful support group here. Some of the finest women I've ever met. I can't wait to share this little one with them. With all of you too. Yesterday he was very active. I don't think he stopped moving all day. The girls love to watch him move in my tummy. To press their cheeks to me and feel him move. They are always amazed :)

I hope you all enjoyed your Valentine's Day and wish you a wonderful President's Day weekend!

The New ATV

2011-02-08T05:29:00.000-08:00

This was a gift at my shower. I was overwhelmed! It was one hubby and I had been looking at and I love it because of it's versatility.

Even the oldest volunteered to push little one around. He put it together and promplty plugged his Ipod into the mp3 speakers and strolled around the house in a mock run..Oh brother!

Middle son (now 14 and 6' 3/4") took a turn..not pushing it..sitting in it! I had to chase him out! Good thing is, the tires held :) I wish I'd snapped a picture.

The regression has started early. Mr. Pinch (youngest girl) asked if she could try out the crib!

The Final Countdown

2011-02-06T14:41:00.000-08:00

Construction is almost finished! We've got to get chair rail in tomorrow and then we can start moving in baby stuff and then, of course, baby.

It's still a strange feeling when I open that door and see a crib in there. I want to ask "Whose house is this again?"

Here are the pictures I said I would post (sorry about the shadow)...

Almost There!

2011-01-30T15:07:00.001-08:00

In more ways than one. The babies room is just about ready for furniture. I've purchased a crib

and just picked up the mattress today. Still no bedding, one thing at a time. :) I've still got some time.

I need a dresser or something to store clothing. We are working on that right now..not sure what we want to do for storage. It's been such a long time since I went baby shopping. It's absolutely overwhelming! I've picked up things here and there for family members and friends, but I haven't set up a nursery in over 10 years! I get exhausted just walking through the doors at these baby store warehouses.

I'm anxiously awaiting the birth of Leo, over at A Half-dozen Productions. Should be any day now!

Just found out another good friend is expecting. It's nice to be among these women who are such wonderful mom's. They are font's of knowledge and advice.

I'll take some pics of the nursery once it's put together. Or at least, as put together as I can get it. We still have to finish up some painting of the trim and molding and get the door on.

I can't wait to meet his little guy.

Prom Time

2011-01-22T04:37:00.000-08:00

The annual homeschool prom is coming up in March. My son, who has a girlfriend to take this year, really wants to go.

Hubby says boys shouldn't go to prom until their Senior Year. If at all. I say, I went twice. Junior and Senior.

Hubby says he should pay for his tux. I say that's parents responsibility.

Hubby says Prom=nonsense. I say Prom=fun. Fond memories. It makes me smile.

Son says "So? Can I go?"

It's not cheap. Tickets are just over half a Ben Franklin for a couple. Plus transportation, tux rental. It's tight around here these days.

Hubby shakes his head and sighs. "What's the big deal?"
I sigh and think of the awesome pictures of my son all dressed up in a Tuxedo with a pretty girl on his arm. The fun of picking a corsage. ***sigh***

Secretly, Between you and me..I think he's going.

Back in Cyber Space Under Construction

2011-01-15T16:23:00.000-08:00

For the last week our internet access has been hit and miss. We finally got access tonight around 6:30 pm! Hallelujah!

The little babe on my sidebar is due in roughly 62 days and we needed a spot to put him. I'm a believer that after 2-3 mos they get their own room, own bed, etc. So, we started trying to plan this out. We have 5 possible bedrooms here, and thought that we might move the oldest boy down to the "spare room". I wasn't a real fan of that because it's sort of our "workout" room right now and I'm not a fan of the kids living downstairs.

So we started looking at how to make it work. Well our bedroom is some 44ft long and almost as wide. There's this little punch out "sitting room" thing that we never use and have talked about walling in. That's what we've done. Here are some pics of the progress. We still have to paint the walls and get the door painted. Buy some baby furniture and get it set up. It's almost done! Painting will be done next weekend when it's warmer here. When Baby gets too big to be "in our room" then we'll rearrange the other kids and turn the new room into our workout room/office or something..but for now it works and adds a possible 6Th bedroom to the house. It's a 9X13 space. Not bad, and we walled it in for under $300!

Happy New Year!

2011-01-01T04:26:00.000-08:00

Happy New Year to all of you! We are at the tail end of Christmas, Epiphany is just around the corner!

Today is the Solemnity of the Blessed Virgin. It's not a Holy Day of Obligation this year in the US. Are you going to Mass anyway? There are a few being offered around town. Hubby has just left to drop the big boy off at work this am so I have a few minutes to get some words down and get everyone ready to go.

We stayed up last night to watch the ball drop..relatively uneventful. Only because I was dead tired, slept until 1155 and then woke up..kissed the hubby and kids..went back to bed.

New Years resolutions? Just be nicer. Stop being so judgemental and prideful. I'm talking to myself here ;) Unless, of course these things apply to you...then feel free to use them as well.

I know they sound so "stock" but it really is true. I also want to read one book in the Bible, every quarter and really let it soak in. Practice Lectio Divina. This is really not a resolution, just a reminder to do it.

Well, I better get a move on the clock is tickin'!
Happy New Year to ya'll!

Books, Movies, Music & My Life

2010-12-23T05:03:00.001-08:00

Not necessarily in that order.

We've had a busy week around here! What about you? It's not like it's Christmas or anything.

Trying to keep the meaning of the season and the commercialism at bay has not been very easy. The weather has not helped..it's been super cold in the morning..hot in the afternoon and then cool again or windy. Just when you want to start singing "White Christmas" the yard starts turning green in weird patches. So much for feeling like winter.

We did accomplish our school work for the week. This makes me very happy and quite proud of myself. Last year we took an extended Christmas break and felt the backlash long into the new year. This year we worked until yesterday. Since Christmas falls on a Saturday this year, we I didn't really see a reason to have more than 2 days off.

Anyhow, it's done and I didn't even cave when Mr. Pinch only completed half of her History assignment. We worked on it at 5:30 pm last night. Ya know what!!!?? It's Done! Hallelujah. Score one for mom! Mr. Pinch almost cried. Almost. But she kept it together and we got through the discovery and establishment of Jamestown. Whew.

This morning I am letting the dough rise for cinnamon rolls and downloading some FREE music from Amazon.com..check it out here:Believe In Christmas - Holiday Sampler"..

Don't forget to check out the 25 days of Christmas free MP3's here:
25 Days of Christmas FREE MP3's

I also just finished reading C.S. Lewis' Till We Have Faces: A Myth Retold. I've carried this book around for years and have picked it up, dismissed it, picked it up again..and this time it stuck. Great Story. I loved it. It's the myth of Cupid & Psyche retold. Lewis brings an entirely new story and heroine to you. It's an amazing read and if you haven't yet, I highly recommend you add it to your winter book list.
Till We Have Faces: A Myth Retold

On the movie forefront, hubby and I picked up an old favorite The Toy, with Richard Pryor.

I really needed this laugh. It has it's oops, get the kids out, moment, but well worth the watch if you have the clearplay filters in place. A few cuss words, a few cleavage shots and one scene where a naked woman's body is displayed in a painting.

Overall a great story about love and friendship. Just close your eyes when you see Fancy. :)

The Toy

And of course, It wouldn't be right without Charlie Brown.
Love this one.
A Charlie Brown Christmas (Remastered Deluxe Edition)

So, if you've done all your shopping, trimmed up your tree, baked a thousand cookies, given gifts to all your neighbors..treat yourself to a good book, some free music and a belly full of laughs.

Merry Christmas Ya'll!

Sharing at Christmas - The Oplatki Tradition

2010-12-14T04:28:00.000-08:00

I recently received some Oplatki wafers in the mail from Aquinasand more.com for review. I received a package of 12 wafers with envelopes and the story of The Oplatki Tradition.

I took the wafers to our MCCW Faith Study and shared this beautiful tradition with them.

The tradition stretches back to 17th Century Polish nobility. Oplakti, simple wafers made of flour and water, are beautifully etched with Christmas scenes. The tradition has the family gather around the dinner table on Christmas eve. The Oplatki wafer rests on a white napkin over some greenery, or straw, on a platter. This symbolizes the manger of the Christ Child. The Eldest member of the family then breaks off a piece of the Oplatki and shares it with the family member next to him with kind words of best wishes in the Christmas season. Each member of the family does the same, embracing one another as they share the Oplatki.

This is an opportunity to offer forgiveness as well. Many families talk of how old grudges were healed and family members coming together once more during this simple, but profound tradition.

This is a wonderful, simple tradition you can share with your family on Christmas Eve.

Find out more about The Oplatki here.

Courting & all that new love stuff...

2010-12-10T04:12:00.000-08:00

It seems I am consumed lately by the activities of my oldest son. In my last post I spoke about his new job and, briefly, his girl.

We got to meet and hang out with his girl last night. He invited her for dinner and family game night. He spent the day getting the house ready..vacuuming and straightening..(I think I like this :D)

We were late picking her up because of traffic (my fault) but the carnations and little birthday cake he brought her made up for it, I think.

We had a nice time getting to know her and she seems to be a very nice young lady. We played a good round of Trivial Pursuit and the two of them won. And no, we didn't' let 'em..in fact, I was po'd 'cause every time hubby and I got a question(we played teams) I had the right answer, second guessed myself and chose another answer. I mean EVERY time! I couldn't catch a break. Ugh. And if you know me, you know how competitive I am. Even with the kids. ;D

It was a pleasant night and I am happy for my son. He's met a nice girl. He's got a great job and he's doing good in school. Keep him in your prayers that he is able to do God's will in his life always.

Thanks ya'll! Happy Advent!

Strange Things Are Happening..

2010-12-04T03:49:00.000-08:00

These are the words to the song from Toy Story. "Strange things are happening to me.." I think Woody sings this one. It's a rather poignant scene where Woody realizes Andy has moved beyond him and discovered Buzz. He sort of feels left out, confused.

I woke up with the song in my head today. This scene replaying over and over again. Did anyone leave me for a mechanical flying wonder with laser lights and a pop up face mask?!?! No...but almost!

My oldest son started working yesterday. He's got a job and a girlfriend too!! Thank goodness he's not driving yet or I'd be a wreck. Emotionally. {pardon the pun)

Actually, now that he has a job, perhaps he can help pay for his driver's course. Then he will be able to transport himself to and from work. That would be nice.

I think it would be best if someone unbiased taught him how to drive. Better for him and for us. It's stressful and we don't live in a big city. Sometimes country roads can be more hazardous. Ya know!

But back to the song..as I watch my boy head off to work "in the real world" and I feel the little new one kick within, it's a very strange experience. I am caught in between. Feeling a little like Woody..(my boy is growing beyond us more and more every day) and a little like Andy..(a wonderful new little boy is arriving so full of promise and excitement!)

Yeah.

Strange things are happening to me..it sums it up. *Sigh*

Coaster of Life

2010-11-30T03:36:00.000-08:00

It's been a long, crazy, absolutely lovely, sad week!
My brother and his family came for Thanksgiving - Start Climbing!
My good friend miscarried at 15 weeks - the first descent (hold your breath!)
Friends from church celebrated Thanksgiving dinner with us - On the way back up!! (Here we go again!)
My friend ended up in the OR and it was too dern scary for a minute - All the way down we go now!(The Screaming starts now!)

Our guest, Michael John Poirier, arrived! - On the climb again!(No time to catch your breath!)
My brother and his family had to head back home!- The final descent(Holy Moly!)
Lovely mini retreat "concert" with Michael and our parish - take that last sharp turn! ( Blood is pumpin')
The retreat is over, the family and friends are back to work..- pulling into the brake house, the ride is over. **sigh**

I thank God for this last weekend. It has been life changing in a way. Oh and did I mention it's Advent! As I wait for the arrival of my Lord, I also await the arrival of our little gift from God. I cannot ever give Him near the joy that He has blessed me with in my children. Because I delight so much in the reaction of the receiver it is a humbling experience for me. He is so patient.

The words from one of Michael's songs have been with me all weekend..

May you be magnified, O Lord.
May you be magnified, O Lord.

Pecan Trees

Charity

2010-11-23T03:54:00.000-08:00

Last year I participated in this great little volunteer thingy. It's called the Angel Project. I know, I know..volunteer again? Aren't you already doing that at your church, your kids school etc. Well maybe, but this is soooo easy! You don't even have to leave your own home to make a difference in someones life and it costs pennies! Literally! You can probably pay for this with the pennies in your couch!

From The Angel Project website:

Here is how this works for Volunteers:

1. Email me to sign up to be a Card Angel

2. On or around the Week of December 8th, 2010, I will send an email to all of the volunteers who sign up to be Card Angels. The complete list will not be sent before then.

3. In that email, there will be a link for you to access that will have the names, addresses and stories of all of the people that we will be sending cards to this year.

4. You can print that list if you would like. Once you have the list, then you get your Christmas Cards from a store or make them yourselves (which can be fun!).

5. You fill them out however you would like, address them, put them in the mail, and YAY!!! You've just touched someone's life in a very positive way! :o)

**REMEMBER to get your cards in the mail no later than about December 18th or they might not make it there by Christmas!**

Ya know, this is just too easy. I hope you will join me in this project. To make it even easier, you don't have to leave a comment telling me you will :).

Here's a song line you can hum (if you know the tune...) "It's the most wonderful time of the year!"

I'm Going Nuts!

2010-11-21T16:35:00.000-08:00

otherwise knows as Pecans Pecans! I wanted to post a pictorial of the whole process for Sarah..but my camera battery died. I am charging it now and should have some photos for ya tomorra!

Needless to say I've managed to pick about 5 lbs of pecans. I'm not sure what the yield will be shelled (my kitchen scale decided to die this week as well) but I'm guessing I've got at least 3 lbs. We'll be eating them up pretty quick with Thanksgiving right around the corner and pecan pie on the menu. As well as pecan crusted sweet potatoes and Amish friendship bread as well.

With pecans going for $5.79 a lb, I'm quite happy with the savings. I'll be out this week to pick some more before the season is all done. I'd like to give some to my family that visits this week. Hey, this state may be known for it's fruit, but it's really the nuts that take the cake(and make the money) around here.

I'm lovin' being pregnant! The baby is moving all over and let me tell ya, there is nothing, I mean NOTHING, like that feeling. It is truly amazing! What's even more amazing is that I can share the entire process with my older children. That makes it truly special to me.

I wish I could have all of you over to the house for dinner on Thursday. I have a big house, though not as big as ol' Pioneer Woman's ranch and definitely not as decked out, but it sure would be fun! Blessings to all of you!

Who's Really Winning?

2010-11-18T14:18:00.001-08:00

So the headline read something about the terrorists have won! This was a day or two ago when the story on the body scanner/extremely unfriendly pat downs broke.

But I have to ask...who are the "terrorists"? Could it be that these so called terrorists that are taking away our American freedoms are the very same ones sworn to uphold them.

Maybe I'm wrong, but I think that this is just one more way the (good ol'wanna be socialist) gov't we have leading us right now, can humiliate (what they want to be) the proletariat.

Bake Off Photos

2010-11-14T03:05:00.000-08:00

The Contestants

We had to keep the judges secluded. :)

3rd place cake winner. Carrot Cake. Yum!

The Grandprize Winner. Irish Creme Cake with Almonds!

1st place in Cookies - Mine!!! Recipe below.

Chocolate and Peanut Butter sandwich cookies:

* FOR THE COOKIE:
* 2 Eggs
* ½ cups Vegetable Oil
* ¼ cups All-purpose Flour
* 1 box Devil's Food Cake Mix

* FOR THE FROSTING:
* 4 ounces Cream Cheese, softened
* ¾ cups creamy Peanut Butter
* 1 teaspoon Vanilla Extract
* 2-½ cups Powdered Sugar
* 3 Tablespoons Milk

to make the cookies:

Preheat oven to 350ºF. Whisk eggs and oil in a medium bowl. Mix in flour and cake mix until well blended. Roll into 1 inch balls (I used the pampered chef small scoop) and bake for 8-10 minutes on an ungreased cookie sheet. Cool completely on a wire rack.

to make the frosting:

In a medium bowl cream together cream cheese, peanut butter and vanilla. Add in powdered sugar and mix until smooth. Add in milk a little at a time until you get the desired consistency.

Put frosting into a ziplock bag and squeeze out air. Snip one corner off and squeeze frosting onto the bottom of one cookie. Place the second cookie on top, bottom sides facing in. Repeat with remaining cookies and frosting.

(original recipe by mynameissnickerdoodle)

Enjoy!

Baking Competition

2010-11-13T12:12:00.001-08:00

Just got home from our MCCW 1st Annual Baking Competition. MCCW is our ladies group at Church. Military Council of Catholic Women.

Let me tell ya..the sweets runneth over today. I barely had a taste of the winning entries and had to stop. Too much!

We had 3 categories, cakes, cookies and pies. Contestants made tasty treats like blueberry pie (to die for), red velvet cake and thumbprint cookies to key lime pie. Over all there were 15 entrants and 21 different treats to taste.

Our men's group, The Knights of Columbus, judged for us. The overall winner was an Irish Creme Cake with Almonds.

I won 1st place in the cookie category with my chocolate peanut butter sandwich cookies.

But the best thing was that it was just so much fun! I love a good competition so this was just a great day for me. Even if I hadn't won, I would still be stoked. It was great to share these awesome treats and our time with our friends from church. Just a wonderful day dernit!

I can't wait for next year!

Pictures will be in the next post. I'm exhausted and just need a nap :)

Burp

2010-11-11T23:52:00.001-08:00

Excuse me! Last night my wonderful husband treated me to a fabulous dinner at Carraba's. Fresh baked italian bread, that sweet little dipping sauce, fried calamari and bruschetta(!), Tagliarini with crushed tomato, garlic, olive oil and basil..and now..**burp** it's 3am and I'm still enjoying it. I think.

Heartburn is freakin' ridiculous! I absolutely cannot lie down. The fibroids have the baby up high which doesn't help either. So..**burp** excuse me..

I took 2 maalox, in the assorted citrus flavor (yum), and am hoping they kick in fast! Off to sit on the couch and wait it out..I've never suffered from heartburn before..ugh.

Look What I Did Today!

2010-11-08T09:46:00.001-08:00

We made these at our MCCW meeting this morning. It was a lot of fun and we had a good group! I can't wait until the First Sunday of Advent!

I also started a new website for the crafts I am working on..it's a work in progress, but feel free to stop by and bookmark/follow me there. A Helping Hand Crafts.

Something New at A Helping Hand

2010-11-07T11:04:00.000-08:00

This post I am offering something new to you all and if you like it please pass the word..

With the rising cost of living, teenagers, college funds and a new baby on the way, I have felt called to help out my husband when it comes to bringing home the bacon.

I homeschool, so I have a dayjob. However, it doesn't put food on the table. Good ideas, but no actual food. :) One of those ideas was to offer to the public the things I have been handmaking lately.

I make hand dyed knotted twine rosaries. Each rosary is carefully hand dyed and knotted so each one is unique. They are approximately 29 inches long. I use #36 twine, hand dyed in various colors and finish each with a nickle plated crucifix held on by a jumpring. I also make desert colored rosaries for those service members and loved ones you may have stationed in Iraq and Afghanistan. The desert rosaries are finished with a black plastic rosary. I will show pictures here of the ones I currently have in stock. Each rosary is $7.00 + $3.00 shipping. Your rosary will be shipped in a bubble wrap package to guard against damage. You can email me (email in the right hand sidebar) if you are interested in any of the rosaries below.

D1:

D2:

#7

#6

#5

#4

#3

#2

I am also making newborn santa hats. Each hat is made with Lion Brand 100% Polyester Fun Fur & Red Heart Worsted-Medium 4 ply White yarn brim, the top is made from Red Heart Acrylic Worsted-Medium 4 ply yarn in Hunter Green, Lt Blue or Red. These hats are $10.00 +3.00 shipping. If you are interested in more than one hat please email me for shipping. I make these to order.

Thanks for taking a look and if you like what you see, please pass this info on.
Blessings to ya'll.

Trick or Treat!

2010-11-01T03:18:00.000-07:00

The kids finally got their costumes together for the candy spectacular that was our neighborhood Halloween trick or treating.

Candy distro didn't start in earnest at 6 but rather closer to 7 when the skies were darkened and it's just way more fun!

A few neighbors were decked out to scare, but nothing over the top. Most just had a few decorations at best. I spent most of the afternoon making popcorn balls with the kids. We handed them out and, to my surprise, the neighborhood kids loved it! I only had one little girl, maybe 4 or 5 say "That's not candy! That's popcorn! You can't put candy in popcorn?!?!" It was comical at first. But she was still at it as she walked down the street with mom.

I saw only a handful of teenage trick or treaters. Not including my 2. I was surprised. I thought I'd see many more. Had one infant trick or treater. Poor thing. She was all dolled up in some sort of pink tutu and fast asleep. Dad was pushing the stroller and tryin' to score some candy.

Here are some pics of the kids Halloween 2010. We had Nerd boy, Darth Hanes, Jailbreak Julie & Just A Bum. See if you can pick 'em out.

Hope For Hard Times - A Review

2010-10-30T06:34:00.000-07:00

Just finished the 30 minute read "Hope For Hard Times" by Scott Hahn. What a gem!
It is definitely a quick read, but not without serious impact. From the Babylonian Exile to the Crucifixion, Dr. Hahn offers us an opportunity to understand our sufferings and trials here on Earth by relating them to the Biblical trials and ultimately uniting them to the Cross of Christ who bears all for our sake.

Love hurts. At least true love does. We are required to live unselfishly if we are living in love. We must have hope that our treasure is in Heaven. We must trust in our Heavenly Father, that He does know what's best for us.

We must relinquish our hold on our own tragedy and, as the saying goes, offer it up. Don't concentrate on the negative, but rather keep your eye on the prize, Heaven. Thank God for the suffering He has seen fit to bestow upon you. It just might be the answer to your prayers.

Grab some coffee, sit back and enjoy this little gem of Catholic teaching. You can find Hope for Hard Times at the Catholic Company.

Also be sure to check out their great selection of baptism gifts.

This review was written as part of the Catholic book reviewer program from The Catholic Company.

Ulterior Motives

2010-10-30T04:50:00.000-07:00

I read this last night...

Have you asked The Holy Spirit to show you your hidden sins?

The ones you subconsciously THINK are hidden.

Then I read in the the Gospel of Matthew 15:11 "Not what goes into the mouth defiles a man, but what comes out of the mouth, this defiles a man."

and...

15:17 "Do you not see that whatever goes into the mouth passes into the stomach, and so passes on? 18 But what comes out of the mouth proceeds from the heart, and this defiles a man. 19 For out of the heart come evil thoughts, murder, adultery, fornication, theft, false witness, slander."

I got my feelings hurt the other day. It's been a week or so actually, and it's still bothersome. Just because it was done so nonchalantly. Most of the time I just brush it off, but this one went a little deeper. I want to know it's just human failure..slip o' the tongue..shouldn'ta said that..oops..

That little demon that follows me around..akin to wormwood..he wants me to think that there were ulterior motives. He wants me to think more into it. Ugh. Sometimes he gets me.

St. Michael the Archangel..defend us in battle!
Be our protector against the wickedness
and snares of the devil.
Rebuke him, O God!
We humbly beseech Thee.
And do Thou, O Prince of the Heavenly Host,
by Divine Power
Cast into hell
satan and all the evil spirits
who roam about the world
seeking the ruin of souls.
Amen.

What to be..what to be..

2010-10-25T17:59:00.000-07:00

looks like we are going with hobo and drama queen. On our evening walk the girls were lamenting their lack of costumes. After tossing a few ideas around..tossing out the idea of buying ANYTHING for halloween..they have begun the creative process.

My oldest daughter, the hobo, is now sewing odd bits of fabric to some old pants so they look "patched". She's made herself a kerchief bandanna. We found some old outdoor tenny's she can cut the toe out of and some colorful socks to interchange.

The youngest, Mr. Pinch, she grabbed one of her sisters dresses and her flashy pink sunglasses. We'll roll her hair and throw on some "really red" lipstick. I asked about shoes..she says absolutely no high heels..but she's got some shiny bits of craft supplies to stick on her shoes.

I love watching their creativity and imagination take hold. I can't wait to see the final products! I'll share pics with ya'll.

I need something to be...

2010-10-24T03:44:00.000-07:00

so says my youngest in reference to her Halloween costume. Or lack thereof.

Baby is doing well as far as my doc can see :) No signs of trouble so far. I'll be able to see more on Tuesday when I receive a much more thorough ultrasound. It's so exciting!

Here's what Dr. Scott Hahn shares with us about ~~todays~~ next weeks readings

October 31, 2010 - 31st Sunday in Ordinary Time

Lover of Souls

Readings:
Wisdom 11:22-12
1 Psalm 145:1-2, 8-11, 13-14
2 Thessalonians 1:11-2:2
Luke 19:1-10

Our Lord is a lover of souls, the Liturgy shows us today. As we sing in today’s Psalm, He is slow to anger and compassionate towards all that He has made.

In His mercy, our First Reading tells us, He overlooks our sins and ignorance, giving us space that we might repent and not perish in our sinfulness (see Wisdom 12:10; 2 Peter 3:9).

In Jesus, He has become the Savior of His children, coming himself to save the lost (see Isaiah 63:8-9; Ezekiel 34:16).

In the figure of Zacchaeus in today’s Gospel, we have a portrait of a lost soul. He is a tax collector, by profession a “sinner” excluded from Israel’s religious life. Not only that, he is a “chief tax collector.” Worse still, he is a rich man who has apparently gained his living by fraud.

But Zacchaeus’ faith brings salvation to his house. He expresses his faith in his fervent desire to “see” Jesus, even humbling himself to climb a tree just to watch Him pass by. While those of loftier religious stature react to Jesus with grumbling, Zacchaeus receives Him with joy.

Zacchaeus is not like the other rich men Jesus meets or tells stories about (see Luke 12:16-21; 16:19-31; 18:18-25). He repents, vowing to pay restitution to those he has cheated and to give half of his money to the poor.

By his humility he is exalted, made worthy to welcome the Lord into his house. By his faith, he is justified, made a descendant of Abraham (see Romans 4:16-17).

As He did last week, Jesus is again using a tax collector to show us the faith and humility we need to obtain salvation.

We are also called to seek Jesus daily with repentant hearts. And we should make our own Paul’s prayer in today’s Epistle: that God might make us worthy of His calling, that by our lives we might give glory to the name of Jesus.

Sweet Dreams

2010-10-19T03:44:00.000-07:00

Had my first dream about my baby last night. I was with my parents, but only saw my father. No delivery or anything..just walking through my parent's house with this little balled up bundle with a binky. :) I knew it was my little boy. I woke up happy. I don't usually remember my dreams so this is a special treat.

This morning as I took my first sip of coffee, I felt the baby kicking. Oh what joy! I cannot express it. I guess this little one likes Dunkin' Donuts Hazelnut :).

Of course, I haven't felt it again, but it is enough. I go for another appt this Thursday and hopefully Doc will take a peek with the ultrasound. I have the big ultrasound where they check for all kinds of stuff (that's so very medical sounding right?) on the 26th. I have to go to the big hospital downtown for that one.

I am still amazed that God has given us this wonderful opportunity. Oh! That we may serve Him well.

Silent Sunday

2010-10-17T03:38:00.000-07:00

sunrise over Myrtle Beach...

Building a City...

2010-10-15T04:46:00.000-07:00

Just got back from our MCCW World Wide Conference in Baltimore, MD. The Theme was Build a City of God. Over 250 military Catholic women gathered together for a week of spiritual growth and fulfillment. I was able to go with 13 of the finest women I know. Plus (BIG BONUS) I was able to see and have dinner with Sarah from Prayer 4 The Journey. We've been apart for going on 3 years now and it was such a delight to see her again.

Here are some pictures:

Home to some of the finest crab cakes in Baltimore.

Baltimore at sunset 30th floor Tremont Plaza Hotel

St. Alphonsus Church Baltimore Built 1845

My brother, sister in law and nephew. Such a treat to see them!

My bff. So glad we got to see each other.

Back on Track

2010-10-02T18:06:00.000-07:00

I have officially started back on my 10 miles a week track. Although, this time I am walking. Not running. Of course I know I won't "lose" weight, but I hope to maintain my stamina and get back into a little shape.

So far it's been very good. Yesterday, the first day, first mile, was hard. I haven't exercised in over 3 months and I felt it. Last night was better and today was even better than that. Got 3 miles in today.

That's 5 for my week so far. Hubby mapped out a new route for me so I can get 1.5 in each time. The goal is to get to 6 miles a day walking. I hope to be there by the end of November. The weather is great for walking and the dog is loving it as well.

I've constantly got this baby on my mind. I've got no choice but to trust God that all is well. I've not experienced any signs of miscarriage so I keep on truckin' , but if I had a doppler I'd have it hooked up 24/7. :)

Had a wonderful time at a friends daughters wedding today. Beautiful couple. Wonderful family. Danced with the kids and had a good laugh at myself when the song said "How low can you go?" ummmmmmm..not very low these days :) At least, not if I want to get back up.

Glad to see the democratic rally had mediocre attendance. I find it funny that they continue to harp about how terrible the "extreme" conservatives are. They call them names like "teabaggers" and "racists" and they do it all from their own lofty self-righteousness. Ugh. If only they could see the log in their own eyes before they pick on the twig in others.

I'm tired of folks trashing others so harshly and then calling themselves okay. State your problem but don't verbally cut 'em to pieces.

Just my rant.

It's such a good feeling...

2010-09-29T18:03:00.000-07:00

Mr. Rogers comes to mind today. I have to thank God today for just fantabulous day! Yes, it was the Feast of The Holy Archangels.
Yes, it is my son's feast day (St. Michael is his Patron)
Yes, I got to homeschool group on time
Yes, we fought this morning trying to get to group on time! :)

but really, it was just an ordinary day.
It rained.
It was cooler than it has been in months!
Had to wear a sweater to Adoration tonight.

Sitting there, with Jesus, surrounded by my kids and missing my husband
Wonderful friends in the pews near me
I just had to say Thanks be to God for it all!

Being at Adoration is like being near the ocean for me.
I realize, very distinctly, how small I am.
How little I am and how clueless I really am

He continues to put me in my place. I continue to step out of it.
He's puts me back. I step out..etc etc.

Ah! He's just so GOOD. That doesn't even make any sense about what I really am trying to describe. I am not able to put it in words that make sense.

He just IS. And I am just so thankful for Him.

It's Just Another Day...

2010-09-25T09:20:00.000-07:00

Here's a look at our newest bundle o' joy. Shaping up to be a male bundle :) We are currently at 15 weeks. Still have a good ways to go. Still want to be connected to a fetal monitor most days :) I can't tell you how much I love hearing that heart beating and seeing those hands and feet move around! I can't wait until I can feel them. Doc says it might take me a bit longer 'cause of those wicked fibroids blocking things. I am just very thankful to God for this great blessing. If you saw this on facebook, thanks for all our kind comments.

I've been going nonstop since I came home from the doc's. We had lunch out with the family on Thursday, Friday was a fieldtrip to pray at Planned Parenthood for the 40 Days for Life campaign and then an afternoon at the park/riverwalk and the pool. It was great to pray with my friends and family, to play and chat later. Today, we are headed back to PP for the 40 days rally. The big "kickoff" here. Then back home to to take the boys out to sell popcorn for the Scouts. (If you're interested in supporting the Boy Scouts let me know and I will set you up with a link you can go to and donate Thanks!) I haven't had a spare moment alone and I know I have an important phone call to make (blondie). I've been trying to find the time to call when I can talk relatively interruption free. It hasn't happened yet. I am hoping tonight. While the boys are out. After dinner. I'll feign laundry folding..no one will want to get in on that little bit! I sure hope she's home :)

Anyhow! I hope you are all having a wonderful weekend and an even better Saturday! Blessings!

Prayer Request

2010-09-21T04:51:00.001-07:00

Please keep a friend and her husband, A & J, in prayer. They lost their little unborn baby at 18 weeks. It is heartbreaking.

Taking time for Me?

2010-09-20T03:27:00.000-07:00

There's a big conference coming for the ladies group at Church. I cannot wait to go! There is one problem. I know lots of people, including family members, who reside in the conference city. I want to see them all. The conference is scheduled down to the minute. I have to remind myself I am not going on vacation. I am going on retreat. I am taking a vacation with God, so to speak.

It will be difficult to be so close to people I care about and not be able to visit with them. On the other hand, this is a time for me to get closer to God. To foster that relationship.

Ya know, sometimes this human life is so frustrating. I can understand why some of the saints wanted outta here. Maybe If I quit wanting it my way, I'd get along better. I can imagine God shaking his finger and saying to me "This ain't Burger King ya know!" I sure do hope he thinks I'm funny, one heck of a laugh, she is! Or else I'm in trouble.

To Share..

2010-09-18T14:21:00.000-07:00

I've been reading The Diary of St. Faustina for the last few years. Last week at Adoration this popped up at me and I wanted to share. I felt drawn to read it over and over again.

(774) + O my Jesus, I understand well that, just as illness is measured with a thermometer, and a high fever tells us of the seriousness of the illness, so also, in the spiritual life, suffering is the thermometer which measures the love of God in a soul.

This one does something to me. It makes me see the reality of suffering. The reality that I don't want to suffer but I do. I want to suffer on my terms. Ugh. I suppose that's the purpose of The Diary..teaching us to Trust God. Trust in His Mercy. Maybe this is why it's taking me years to read this book.

Ladies & Gentlemen...

2010-09-14T16:35:00.000-07:00

I am the proud momma of a brand new Eagle Scout! (the crowd goes wild!!)

Apparently the decision was made last night. The only thing that happens at National is the actual paperwork. But his certificate will be dated September 13, 2010!

He's very proud of himself, as he should be. We've talked about this day for many years and he's finally made it. In his words, "Hey! I made Eagle before I got a girlfriend or a job!". It's sort of an inside joke. Lots of would-be Eagles don't make it because of the distractions of "teen" living these days. He kept his focus.
Met his goal. Congrats kiddo!

In the Air Tonight...

2010-09-13T16:57:00.000-07:00

like Phil Collins says "I can feel it comin' in the air tonight.."

There are definitely some storm clouds on the horizon. Just not sure if they will hit or pass on by. Kinda hopin' they pass on by.

But it's just a storm..eventually the sun comes back out, you assess the damage and keep on truckin'. I'm not so easily damaged.

40 Days for life is upon us. Are you going to join? Do you know that you can pray from your own home? I am going this year. I'm taking the kids. Cause they know. And we will stand for those that can't stand for themselves. Our kick off rally is 2 days after my 15th week ultrasound. I am taking the kids to that ultrasound. They are so very excited to see their sibling in the womb. I am too.

My son is sitting through his Eagle Board of Review right now. He's so funny, before he left he said his armpits will be like sprinklers during his board. He even made this funny visual of a sprinkler with his arm up..he cracked me up. Once the district representative okays his package it goes to the National review board. Then we get "the" letter. Then we start planning the ceremony. He's worked very hard for this and I am so very proud of him. I can still remember his little self all curled up in my lap. His high voice just asking question after question. His blue eyes shining with curiosity and excitement. I just love that boy. I really do.
Good luck Son. Never let 'em see ya sweat!

I've been Tagged!

2010-09-11T06:16:00.000-07:00

Maurisa at Half a Dozen Productions so graciously tagged me in the "10 things that suprise me about me" meme. Umm..here goes..

1. I'm still alive. After a few years of putting my Guardian Angel through hell...(thank you GA!) I wouldn't have made it out of my 20's without you.

2. I homeschool. Never even crossed my mind that I'd be doing such a thing. And loving it. And loving being with my children 24/7 and loving watching them grow and mature and grow closer and fight and drive me crazy and...oh yes, I love homeschooling :)

3. I hate horror movies. Kinda strange since I've read horror books since I my pre-teens and watched Halloween every time it came on HBO. Can't even take the commercials anymore. The closes I get to reading horror is Stephen King and I couldn't make it through his last one The Dome, but only because of the foul language.

4. I blog. Never thought I would be telling complete strangers about my life.

5. I'm on facebook. Never thought I would be there either.

6. I like to be alone in crowded places. Like being at the beach or in a crowded mall. I like to be alone in those places, possibly so that I do not have to feel responsible for keeping track of others. But in general, I like to be around people.

7. I find it easiest to focus on prayer time when I am folding laundry. A job I loathe.

8. I like taking care of people. When I was younger I thought I'd be such a diva, having maids and being rich. No maids, no diva and no maids. I love it.

9. I have a husband who loves me a lot. :) It surprises me everyday.

10. My kids think I'm pretty. That just blows me a way.

so there they are. Weird to try to talk about myself for so long. It got hard after #1. :) Thanks for the tag.

I tag:
Mary B at memyselfandmercy
Therese at Musings of a Mom
Cassie at Blessed Life
PattyinCt at My Apologies

Sort of Successful

2010-09-09T03:26:00.000-07:00

(random nature picture inserted to offer asthetic quality (: )

Since the week is not over yet, I guess I can't post about the "small successes". There is still a lot to do before Friday so I don't wanna put the cart before the horse and call it a great week yet :) But, ya know..I think it's shaping up to be.

Monday, we actually did some school work. The kids weren't thrilled, but they did it and are happy for it now, as they are further along than before.

I have managed to not make dinner once this week. :) However, I am proud to say we have eaten homecooked meals each night, prepared wonderfully by my two oldest boys! They are becoming quite the cooks. I bought a set of Pampered chef recipe cards (that's another post) and they have been working through them. Great job boys!

Laundry has been getting cleaned..again, thanks to my oldest daughter and middle son. Folding..well, we need to work on that, but it's nothing a hot iron can't steam out.

I'm in my 13th week of pregnancy. Now this success does not belong to me either. I am quite nervous and anxious over this week. It's the last week of the first trimester, I so want to hear the heartbeat right now. I have an appt on the 23rd. THe whole family is coming for this one. I heard this the other day.."God's hand is in everything, so leave everything in God's hands". Amen. I just need to do it.

Tonight is a big big night. We are having the kickoff potluck dinner for our women's group at Church. It normally wouldn't be a big deal, but this time I'm responsible for making it happen. See quote above! I'm also taking this one to MOM, she's A+ with these types of things..I mean, she got it done at Cana! Come Holy Spirit, fill the hearts of they faithful!

So say a little prayer for me and my peanut and the ladies that are coming tonight.
You all are very precious to me and I can't thank you enough for stopping by to read my thoughts and offer your support!

Random thought..I love the word "flabbergasted!" :) don't know where that came from..I think that's a future post..hmmmmmmmm

Send Him a Note

2010-09-07T04:42:00.000-07:00

and tell him to stop endangering our troops! This Pastor out of Florida wants to burn Koran's on the anniversary of 9/11. He's got his reasons, his website details them. He's also been warned by Gen Petraeus and others, that this type of protest is particularly bad for our troops in Afghanistan. It is just what the Taliban is looking for to incite more violence against Americans.

Afghanistan does not need MORE violence. Just the other day 5 soldiers, one a military chaplain, were killed. It is already volatile enough. I get the pastors desire to "stand up". But not when you begin to endanger others who are fighting for your very freedom to do so.

I'm not a sympathizer for the other guys. It just irks me when someone knowingly continues with behavior that directly endangers our troops.

If you agree, you can send him an email on his church website Dove World Outreach Center or a letter at

5805 NW 37th St
Gainesville, FL 32653

Tell him to stop endangering our troops!

Get some 'joe, grab a seat..

2010-09-06T05:01:00.001-07:00

and listen to this. If there are men in your life..share it with them as well..

What's God Got To Do With It?

2010-08-29T03:48:00.001-07:00

I watched the Restoring Honor Rally yesterday.
I watched the news clips of Al Sharpton's MLK march.
Is Glenn Beck on to something?
Isn't Al Sharpton a "Reverend"?
Shouldn't they have worked together?
Weren't their messages the same at the root?
National Unity. Under God.
The Reverend inferred that only black Americans can honor MLK
Yet, Beck's crowd was mostly white.
Why is there always the division based on race?
Sometimes those who decry it, maybe unwittingly advance it.
Black people love God.
White people love God.
Is it possible to love Him from the same place?
Together?

Friday Flashback!

2010-08-27T03:58:00.000-07:00

These cousins (mine and my sisters boys) were all born within two years of each. This pic was taken at my mom's house in PA, in 1997, before our transfer to Guam.

My sisters boys are on either side (blondie and funny face) and my 2 are in the middle (plaid shirt and crazy baby)..what was I thinking with that hat? :) It must have been cold.

I wish we were closer! For now, we are separated by a few thousand miles(according to Yahoo! Maps, 2290.44 to be exact). One day hopefully we will be nearer each other...

The Washroom Slayer

2010-08-24T15:00:00.000-07:00

Electronic Meltdowns

2010-08-23T16:48:00.000-07:00

So this weekend we had to buy a new washer. The electronic "locking" mechanism broke in our old one and to find the part and replace it would cost almost as much as a new washer.

Bought a Frigidaire Affinity. Front loader. Nice. Energy saver. The Lord knows I need to save energy. I'm not sure how I like it yet. We had it delivered yesterday and have been washing since. 3 days without a laundry machine and the monster rears it's ugly head. I'd post a picture but we had another electronic meltdown yesterday..

The monitor on my computer died. Just refused to come one. Actually if I turned it off and then back on, I would get about a half second of screen time before it went black. I was all ready to post a pic of my brand new washer..so shiny..so pretty..so flippin' expensive..and the monitor craps on the desk.

I just looked at it. C'mon! Really? Hubby, who was playin' the video game (which never seems to have a meltdown EVER) ignored me.

So I turned the thing off, told God I guess he needed me to take a break from the internet and walked out. Me talkin' to God out loud got hubby's attention. He quit playing to figure out why I was doing such strange things..

After researching a dozen stores and websites for a new or used monitor, I discovered hubby looking at t.v. ads. He nonchalantly mentions we could use the t.v. as a monitor. This is something I have been avoiding for a few reasons. Zero privacy. Not that I'm lookin' at stuff I ain't supposed to be! But sometimes I don't want the kids reading my email while they eat their cheerios ya know? And also because it's not an ergonomic situation. I have to sit on the floor or the couch and I don't like either..I'm such a complainer. Hubby made this cute little lapboard for the keyboard and mouse.

So..it will take some adjustments but we have my computer hooked up to our t.v. So I'm posting from the kids laptop in the schoolroom. Go figure.

One of these days I'll get that pic of the washer up..or not. I lost the desire to post about it after I had to wash 10 loads of laundry..I am gonna lose my ever-lovin' mind if them kids don't wear those shorts twice! Give me a break guys!

I hope nothing else breaks. Who is the patron saint of electronics?

It's a Right!

2010-08-21T04:19:00.000-07:00

To life!

I just attended a Right to Life dinner last evening. We were called to do something. Whether it's march, educate, donate or just pray. DO SOMETHING.

The ultrasound I posted in my previous post is of my 10 week old gift from God. God, Our Father, has allowed my husband and I to participate in the creation of this tiny life. We have brought together all the ingredients and He is going to make them into something awesome!

Yet, it's at this time that women are encouraged to abort. To murder a part of themselves. Physically.

One of the quotes from last night was "Two living people walk into an abortion clinic, two come out..one dead, one injured." A baby is attached to it's mother. Physically. Spiritually. Would you cut off your arm? or leg? The Baby is removed VIOLENTLY. There is no other way. They are taken by surprise, SUCTIONED out in the most common abortion procedure "Vacuum Aspiration".

When people do violence to themselves, through cutting, pulling out hair, etc. They are diagnosed with a mental disorder. They are given therapy..they are thought to be in need of "healing". Yet, a woman is ENCOURAGED to do physical violence to herself AND her baby. She is told that what she is doing is GOOD for her. She is not offered any therapy. She is expected to go about her business as if she has just blown her nose and been rid of a nasty cold. Not the deliberate and violent removal of a part of her body that is alive! Growing.

I say that mandatory ultrasounds would save many lives, because it's hard to kill something that you see moving, clearly alive! Heck! some people are squeamish about killing bugs for goodness sake, but the same folks could kill a child (as long as they can't see it).

Show them the truth! Support your local Right to Life organization and Pregnancy centers. Purchase ultrasound machines for them if you can. Or just give what you can. I spent $30 for a dinner last night. That money goes straight to local efforts to educate folks on the truth of life. Is that too much? Yeah, it's hard times..but folks will spend $30 at the movies..at another restaurant..at the mall, and think nothing of it. Your $ could be the little needed to purchase a machine that would save a million lives! Even if just saved one, isn't that enough?

I can't apologize if this post makes anyone feel uncomfortable. Abortion is uncomfortable.

I'd like you to meet...

2010-08-19T16:45:00.000-07:00

our little gift.

Just 10 weeks and growing. Please keep this little one in your prayers. We'll be back to see this tiny one in 5 weeks. Pray that the fibroids (you can see one on the lower right hand corner) that surround it do not invade it's space and that they degenerate or just stay out of the way! Mother of Perpetual Help, Pray for Us!

Resisting The Devil - A Review

2010-08-18T16:56:00.000-07:00

I wasn't sure what lead me to choose Resisting the Devil by Neal Lozano to review. When I received the book I actually became a bit apprehensive about reading it. The title threw me off and I got stuck on that work "Devil". I started to wonder why I had chosen this one and put off reading it for a week.

It sat on the counter, reminding me each day of my choice to review it. So I took it with me to Adoration. I figured that's a great place to start resisting. Right?

It turned out to be excellent. Both Adoration and the book. Mr. Lozano lays out a plan of healing in Resisting The Devil. His is a healing ministry. Not necessarily physical healing, but spiritual ones, and that we, the laypeople of The Church are called to this healing ministry. He explains how the Catholic Church has always encouraged this type of ministry, even though it fell out of fashion in society, along with the devil and sin.

He offers a method of deliverance prayer, that is rooted in scripture and reliant on the sacramental life of The Church. Mr. Lozano clearly defines the rite of exorcism in The Church and explains the difference between exorcism and deliverance ministry.

I highly recommend this book for those who feel they may be called to deliverance ministry. To spiritual healing.

A few weeks later, just after I had finished this book, I attended Adoration and one of our Deacons was leading. He spoke about his healing ministry and prayer group that meets weekly at our church. I realized at that moment why I had chosen Mr. Lozano's book. It was not for me, but for me to pass along. So I did, to our Deacon.

You can find Resisting the Devil at The Catholic Company. Click here for more info.

I am a reviewer for The Catholic Company and received this book free of charge to review.

A Simple Prayer

2010-08-16T18:10:00.000-07:00

My Lord God, I have no idea where I am going. I do not see the road ahead of me. I cannot know for certain where it will end. Nor do I really know myself, and the fact that I think that I am following your will does not meant that I am actually doing so, But I believe that the desire to please you does in fact please you. And I hope I have that desire in all that I am doing. I hope that I will never do anything apart from that desire. And I know that if I do this you will lead me by the right road though I may know nothing about it. Therefore, will I trust you always though I may seem to be lost and in the shadow of death, I will not fear, for you are ever with me, and you will never leave me to face my perils alone.
- Thomas Merton

Ouch! That's my bad toe!%#%$#& UPDATE!

2010-08-16T04:05:00.000-07:00

I have to take my middle daughter to the "procedure clinic" today. She's having her ingrown toenail removed. Please say a prayer for her, as I'm not so good with needles in places where nerve endings congregate. In fact, say a prayer for me. :)

Well, Go figure! I get my girl, whose been hyping herself up for the last two weeks, to the hospital for the "procedure". The resident comes in, says the toe is not infected. We could go ahead with a removal, or just work on it at home for about two weeks and it should heal up. If it doesn't, than have it removed. He said the removal process does not guarantee that it won't come back in 6-8 months.

WTF?!?!?! Why didn't the person (and I don't know if it was a doc, PA, nurse what? They just wear a military uniform, so I don't know)tell me that last week? I could have been treating her at home all this time! She was in "relifappointment". Relief at not having to have the "procedure" but disappointed at the same time because of the anxiety that she suffered to get here. Oooooooooh! Burn me up, let me tell ya.

So I opted out of the painful removal and will treat her at home, now that I have the instructions. They could have saved her the pain and anxiety and me the time, if they had just had the original whatever-she-was give me those instructions.

Thanks for your prayers all the same. They never go to waste. :)

The Feast of the Assumption

2010-08-15T04:06:00.000-07:00

Most Blessed Mother Mary, Pray for us now and at the hour of our death. Amen.

Oh Baby!

2010-08-13T14:28:00.000-07:00

I was invited to attend a baby shower today for a wonderful woman.

She's having her eighth little bundle of joy!

I am amazed at how God trusts us in the cooperation of life.
Yet, how hard it is for us to trust Him with daily struggles.

This family is one of the best families I've ever met
and I was blessed to be able to celebrate with her.

I had a lot of fun crafting these.
Making things for others is always such a joy.

They are really easy..

size 1 or newborn diapers
cupcake papers
disposable tin or basket or whatever
pretty ribbon

open diapers all the way
fold in half lengthwise
roll together, tuck edges
tie with pretty ribbon
pull center upward to desired appearance
put in cupcake paper
give away...

Smile and love a baby. They have no idea why they are here..but they love you anyway.

my precious preteen..just 12 short years ago.

Devoted?

2010-08-11T19:12:00.000-07:00

Well, I was tagged for this meme twice and so I figured I best do something about it. By both Sarah and Patty.

If you haven't seen it yet, it's the Five Favorite Devotions meme. What's so dern funny is you can find my five here at Prayer4theJourney

Here's a recap, oh and my favorite is at the bottom.

The Rosary

The Divine Mercy

The St. Michael Chaplet (although it's a long one, so I don't say it often enough..but I like to say it with Mother Angelica on EWTN)

The Litany of Humility (introduced to me by Sarah and I've need it ever since)

The Consecration to Mary (or True Devotion by St. Louis De Montfort...this one is a lifelong devotion..not only comprised of individual prayers and rosaries, but a complete consecration of the heart and soul towards our Lord through His beautiful mother. It is something that I labor at daily. Like a long walk up a windy path..not sure of where I am going at times..distracted at times..wholly consumed and straight on at others..)

The only one not on this list and the one I love most of all is Adoration of Our Lord in The Blessed Sacrament. It is here that Jesus teaches me. Sees me. Knows me. I am still learning how to learn from Him, see Him and know Him. I have so far to go.

I am not going to tag anyone else, because most everyone I know has been tagged and also because the ones who haven't have already declared a blog break. But do share your devotions in the comments.

Chocolate Cake..what more can you say?

2010-08-11T04:02:00.001-07:00

This recipe comes from PattyinCt. Thank you, thank you, and my children thank you as well.

This cake is oh so chocolatey, kinda fudgy and absolutely divine. Paired nicely with some buttercream I had made earlier..(I thought it was too sweet, but this cake toned it down a bit)

You can find the recipe at Patty's.

Not so yellow "Yellow" cake

2010-08-09T12:56:00.000-07:00

Here's the first pic of the first cake I have evah baked from scratch. It's not so yellow.

Since I'm a box mix girl, I compared this to Duncan Hines, my fav and the only box mix I'll use. I found it to be a little heavier and slightly less moist. Could be the flour I used, all purpose. Next time I'll try a finer cake flour, hoping to produce a fluffier texture. However, this is a great texture for wedding cake. I think it would freeze well and hold up under the pressure of tiers.

The kids all agreed. This was much better, all around, than the box mix. Now to work on that frosting.

Are you a box mix or scratch cake baker? What's your preference for either?

Monday, Monday..

2010-08-09T04:07:00.000-07:00

so good to me...(la la la la la la..) love those Mama's & Papa's!

Lots of folks do the Multitude Monday thing..a little meme about things they are thankful for..I like the meme's 'cause it makes for easy posting, but I'm not a fan of writing down a thousand things..I have to write down enough already..in fact, did I write the doggies appt on calendar? Lemme go check..

Yep! Whew. Couldn't remember and I've already missed it once.

Anyhow..I've been promising the kids a trip to the waterpark (for all their hard work "last" year) but for various and sundry reasons we have been putting it off. Today was gonna be the day (surprise kids!) but when I check the website..it's closed on Mondays. So I guess, Mondays are not so good to me after all. Bowling? Not the same ..huh?

Well, I'll see what I can do. Dunno. We may have to wait until Tuesday.

Made my first cake from scratch last night. I'll try it today. I hope it tastes good. Yellow cake with chocolate frosting. The frosting is too sweet..I have to work on that. It's just a choco butter cream, but I'm starting to not like the butter cream so much. Gotta come up with something new. I'll take a pic and share the taste results after the kids try it. They are the real judge.

Okie dokie..folks..have a wonderful week and I hope Monday is good to you!

2010-08-06T12:25:00.000-07:00

It's been 8 years since my siblings and I have had the opportunity to be together. This was the last time. My sister and lil' big (he's younger than me, but older than my other brother) brother came to visit with all the kids. This pic is of the boy cousins. Now my youngest brother has a little boy to throw in the mix, but who knows when we'll be together again. My lil' big bro is in Afghanistan, his family is in Germany..my sis and her family are thousands of miles away on the west coast and my lil' baby bro is up north. It was good to be able to spend that time with them.

If you could, please keep a special intention of mine in your prayers. I appreciate it so very much!

2010-08-05T04:54:00.000-07:00

I was at the library day yesterday..Wednesday is library day here..like you really needed to know that..or maybe I just needed to fill some space in this post. Anyhow..........

I was at the library yesterday and picked up this cute little gem

I haven't had a chance to try this yet, but I will be doing just that in the next few days..

If you try it first please leave a comment and let us know whatcha think..

Butter

For 1/2 pound of butter you will need

Carrot, 1 medium
Homogenized milk, 1/4 cup
Heavy Whipping Cream, 3 cups chilled
Salt, a pinch

Grater; saucepan, 1-pint; jar or container with tight lid, 2 qt; fine strainer; bowl, 2 qt; buttermold or small serving dish

Prepare coloring by grating carrot and heating it with milk in saucepan. Scald all remaining equipment - jar, lid, strainer, bowl, mold and wooden spoon. Rinse and chill with cold water.

Strain warm tinted milk into jar. Add cream from refrigerator and fasten lid. Shake jar a minute; open lid to release gas, and refasten. Continue shaking, alternating with a partner.

In about 15 minutes the contents will form a thick mush. Continue shaking until contents resembles wheat grains floating in milk (the time will vary with the age of the cream, its temperature, and your shaking style).

Pour contents through strainer into bowl. Empty the milk from the bowl into another container. Turn the butter back into the bowl and cover with cold water. Stir well; strain off and discard water. Repeat washings until water is clear.

With the back of a wooden spoon work the liquid out of the butter by stirring and pressing it against the bowl. Dividing the butter and working half at a time makes it easier. When all liquid has been freed and poured off, work in a little salt, then press butter into mold or dish. Rinse with cold water an chill. Serve later with homemade bread, unmolding if necessary.

So why make butter when you can buy it? 'Cause it's neato!

One Room Schoolhouse

2010-08-04T05:52:00.000-07:00

It's all the rage in the US! Thousands of children all across the country will return to their one room school houses this year. It's almost like little house on the prairie, except mom is the teacher and there are no tin buckets with which to hold your lunch.

It's the only way to get one on one teacher/student interaction. The opportunity to learn from one another skyrockets. Where else can a junior in high school impart his knowledge of American history to a 4th grader? Where else can a freshman teach a 7th grader how to complete the quadratic formula? Only in these highly specialized, unique one room school houses can this occur on a daily basis.

Anyhow..here are some pics of our one room school house (oh and those are blueberry waffles I made..just had to throw that in there at the end..yum)

Some of the books we read.

Our one room schoolhouse. Boys on the left, girls on the right. You can't see two of the desks..they are in the corners. That's my desk in the middle.

This is the chalkboard hubby made. He painted one of the doors from the cabinet with chalkboard paint..there's just something comforting about writing on a chalkboard.
This is the other door from the cabinet..made into an art shelf.

Oh yeah..those blueberry waffles. Mmm. Mmm. Good.

It's the First Day of School!!!

2010-08-02T04:26:00.000-07:00

It's the First Day of School
Oh! What joy! O how cool!

I have new pencils! Mechanical ones.
A sparkly new ruler and crayons? Tons!

My desk is so neat, no trash or debris!
I'll keep it this way all year! Watch & See!

I can't wait to get started! To learn and to grow!
The First Day of School is so great dontcha' know!

Cute Giveaway

2010-08-02T03:19:00.000-07:00

Mama2Chiklettes is having a little giveaway in honor of her new Etsy shop, The Blue Bench Boutique. Check it out!

Friday Flashback - First Day of School

2010-07-30T04:27:00.000-07:00

This picture was taken the year I began this homeschooling journey. My oldest, was taking the picture. He would be the one homeschooled (at the time 6th grade). I had the other 3 home in two years.

At the time I was a child care provider and was taking care of the little boy in the pic, Aiden. He was a sweetheart. The two did not mesh, however, homeschooling and work. So, I found him a replacement and concentrated on my boy. It was a rough year, but we made it and I'm so thankful that we chose this route for all the kids.

We start school next week. Whew..the years are flyin' by. In this pic, blondie was not even in Kindergarten yet. Now she's in 4th grade. Mr. Big Boy was heading to 4th grade. Now he'll be a freshman in high school alongside his brother, a Junior. Big Sister is heading into 7th grade. She was in 2nd grade when this was taken.

I love how our Principal is standing in the background. Ready for action!

Thanks Musings of a Mom for this great way to share a Friday.

If you'd like to participate in Friday Flashback head over to her website, grab the button and link up. We'd love to see your blast from the past.

Recipe Swap Thursday

2010-07-29T07:43:00.000-07:00

Garlic Cheese Bread

1 Loaf French Bread, cut in half lengthwise
2 cups mozzarella cheese, shredded
1/2 cup Italian Garlic Butter*

Preheat oven to 350 degrees.

To make the Italian Garlic butter:

1 stick of softened butter
4 large garlic cloves
2 tsp oregano
2 tsp basil

In a small bowl place softened butter, using a garlic press (or very finely mince), press garlic into bowl, add oregano and basil. Stir all ingredients until will blended.

Place bread on a cookie sheet, spread butter onto bread. Top with shredded mozzarella. Bake in 350 degree oven for about 8 minutes. For the last 2 mins broil on high to brown cheese. Keep an eye out so you don't burn the bread! Using a pizza cutter, slice bread and enjoy.

Enjoy with any Italian dish or as a snack with the kids. You can also top with pepperoni for a quick and easy pizza lunch.

Mind Your Manners Missy!

2010-07-28T03:52:00.001-07:00

Last night the girls and I were invited to attend the chapel volunteer appreciation dinner.

It was a wonderful event at a an even more wonderful venue and the food was delicious.

As we approached the buffet table, the girls immediately spotted dessert. Banana Pudding and Cherry Cheesecake. Their favorites! I enforced the vegetable rule: You must have a vegetable before you can have dessert.

After we eat our meal they hop back up to head for dessert. Okay.."hey, bring me a little..l-i-t-t-l-e! banana pudding will ya?" "Sure Mom!" says the 9 year old.

She brings me (and herself) this dessert plate with a mountainous pile of banana pudding and cherry cheesecake. There was enough on my plate for all 3 of us! Her plate was just as bad. I gave her the "did you leave any for anyone else?" look. She just smiled and started eating. A bit embarrassed, I didn't want to draw any more attention to it so I just kept on talking with the friends at our table.

At some point I look over at her plate. Completely empty! The mound of pudding and cheesecake that close resembled the huge mash potato sculpture in Close Encounters was GONE!

I couldn't help myself, and I said (out loud) "Holy cow child! Did ya lick the plate?!" My little angel replied so sweetly.."No, but I can lick it!" So much for lady like manners!

Vampire Logic

2010-07-26T18:44:00.000-07:00

Thanks to Sancte Pater for posting this article from Human Life International

Vampire Logic

With the issuing of the third movie in the Twilight series I have to speak out about our culture's twisted fascination with vampires. I don't hesitate to tell people that I am totally disgusted with the new fad sweeping over our youth culture these days. It is not just kids that are taken up with the wiles of the dark world either: many moms of teens are swooning for them too. I think that these seductive creatures are simply the spawn of the Harry Potter culture that has for over a decade now been indoctrinating kids to think that the occult world is normal and that all this evil messaging is harmless when dressed up as entertainment. That's vampire logic - and just what the devil wants us to think.

Gone are the days of Bella Lugosi's Dracula (1931) where good was good and evil was evil. A crucifix would drive Dracula away and then he had to go into his infernal coffin when the first streaks of dawn appeared. He was in every way presented as a creature of evil, dark of heart and dread to encounter. He drank human blood too, a feature that was supposed to strike terror in every person who valued his life's essence. The image of a blood-sucking creature who lives in slime and darkness and will pounce on you to drain out your very essence should terrorize every decent person. This is because vampires used to be images of demons. That's what demons are all about: the vanquishing of all human decency and life. They represent the spiritual vortexes of the demon world that drag down to the depths of hell all who fall prey to their wiles.

But, my, how vampires have come up in the world these days.

Nowadays vampires are divided into good and bad - no longer intrinsically evil. The good ones rescuevulnerable women instead of biting them and, allegedly, drink only animal blood (well, we haven't seen the last Twilight movie yet...). And crucifixes? Don't think you'll see any of those driving away bad guys in these movies. The heroes are the "good" vampires, not the Church or religious faith in Christ.

These super-star vampires also walk around in sunlight and, as a matter of fact, their skin just happens to glisten like diamonds when exposed to direct sunlight. Isn't that wonderful? The glam vamps are gentlemen, chaste and well-intentioned, yet they are always hovering around the edge of "falling" and in seductive situations which cause young people to think that they are capable, like their hero vampire, Edward Cullen, of going just so far and pulling back, out of self-control. That's teaching them to play with fire, not a real chastity message for kids.

The worst part of this fascination with vampires from a faith point of view, however, is its blasphemy of the Eucharist. "Unless you eat my flesh and drink my blood you have no life in you," said our Blessed Lord in Chapter 6 of John's Gospel. He is the One who offers His flesh and blood for the life of the world. The vampires eat (bite) the flesh and drink the blood of victims rather than give their own to redeem others. Their bites corrupt and transform their victims into vampires like themselves. They have no life in them. They are the "living dead" by their own estimate.

How sad that this generation has been so taken in by those who represent the very antithesis of the core reality of our Faith - the Eucharist. Vampire logic is anti-Eucharistic logic, and it's very dangerous for our kids. In their obsessive fascination with such darkness, kids (and adults) turn their backs on the One who actually died for them.

To those who say, "Oh, Father, it's only harmless entertainment," I say simply: You've been warned.

Sincerely,

Rev. Thomas J. Euteneuer
President, Human Life International

Musical Monday

2010-07-26T04:59:00.000-07:00

One Day At A Time, Sweet Jesus (Marijohn Wilkins / Kris Kristofferson)
-Cristy Lane

Also recorded by:
The Alexander Brothers; Judy Collins; Phil Coulter;
Floyd Cramer; Carlene Davis; Florida Boys;
Tennessee Ernie Ford; Foster & Allen;
Bill Gaither; Don Gibson; Arthur Greenslade;
Lee Greenwood; George Hamilton IV; Sharon Hardman.

I'm only human, I'm just a woman.
Help me believe in what I could be
And all that I am.
Show me the stairway, I have to climb.
Lord for my sake, teach me to take
One day at a time.

Chorus:
One day at a time sweet Jesus
That's all I'm asking from you.
Just give me the strength
To do everyday what I have to do.
Yesterday's gone sweet Jesus
And tomorrow may never be mine.
Lord help me today, show me the way
One day at a time.

Do you remember, when you walked among men?
Well Jesus you know if you're looking below
It's worse now, than then.
Cheating and stealing, violence and crime
So for my sake, teach me to take
One day at a time.

(Chorus)

I had no idea Kris Kristofferson was a co-writer of this song. Interesting I've been singing this all weekend. It's been an emotional one. My prayer has been "Increase my faith, one day at a time."

Memories..light the corners of my mind..

2010-07-23T06:38:00.000-07:00

I'm participating for the first time in Friday Flashback from The Musings of a Mom..check it out! It's really fun.

9 years ago in March I visited Hawaii for the first time. I was able to hang out with my best Navy girlfriend for 2 weeks! It was one of the most spectacular opportunities I have ever had. This was taken at Cheeseburger in Paradise at Waikiki. What a blast!